Marriage

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Pre-Cana Program: Pre-Cana host couples, married for at least three years, share their life journey with engaged couples, hoping to give them insights which will strengthen their commitment to each other. During a Pre-Cana session, two host couples meet in their homes with a small group of engaged couples once a week for five weeks. Three sessions (Fall, Winter and Spring) are offered each year. Training is provided.

Contact: Deacon Richard and Mary Ann Ferri 516-293-2735

Marriages are celebrated on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays at prearranged times. Please call the rectory at least six months in advance of an intended date in order to make an appointment to complete the preliminary arrangements, set a date for the wedding, and register for the required marriage preparation program.

Please call the Rectory to make an appointment.

Rectory Receptionist:
Phone: (631) 264-0124
Email: [email protected]

*Note: If you are getting married and need an UPDATED BAPTISMAL CERTIFICATE, you must do so within SIX MONTHS of your wedding date.

Living Matrimony in parish life

A parish is at its best when information leads to a real conversation and a clear next step. For Matrimony, that often begins with a little preparation: reading the information carefully, speaking with someone who can help, and allowing enough time for a thoughtful decision. No one needs to arrive with every answer. A parish community exists so that questions can be asked openly and people can move forward at a pace that is realistic for their family and circumstances.

It is useful to connect this topic with the ordinary rhythm of worship. Sunday Mass, quiet prayer during the week, and small acts of service give information a lived context. They also help children, visitors, and longtime members see that parish life is not a collection of separate programs. It is a shared practice of listening, learning, celebrating, and caring for one another. When the next step is clear, it becomes easier to participate with confidence.

A practical way to begin

Start with what is already possible. Read the relevant page, write down any detail that needs clarification, and contact the parish office when a conversation would be more helpful than a form. Make a note of one question you would like to bring to prayer this week. A small, specific step is more likely to become a lasting habit than an ambitious plan that cannot fit into ordinary responsibilities.

  • Review the information before making a commitment.
  • Bring practical questions to a parish contact or ministry leader.
  • Choose one way to stay connected through worship, learning, or service.

Staying connected

Parish resources are most helpful when they lead people toward relationship rather than leaving them to navigate alone. You can consult Mass times when planning a visit, explore prayer and devotions for ongoing spiritual support, or use the parish contact page for a question that needs a personal response. These links are meant as useful next steps, not as a substitute for conversation.

As needs change, return to this information and check for updates. Some people will be ready to volunteer, while others may simply need a place to pray quietly or learn more. Both are meaningful forms of participation. The parish welcomes each person with patience, respect, and room to grow. By taking one faithful step at a time, Matrimony can become part of a deeper and more connected life of faith.